Rewards can be used as positive reinforcement for modifying negative behaviors. Rewards that are selected by the child are usually the most powerful. Also, a variety of reward possibilities helps to keep a child motivated over a long period of time. Rewards can be privileges, things or activities with parents. Be sure rewards don’t become a substitute for words of praise and encouragement; rewards are most meaningful when given along with positive words and touch from parents. Check out these suggestions your child will love!
Home Reward Possibilities for Preschoolers
- Going to the park
- Listening to a bedtime story
- Playing with friends
- Playing on a swing set
- Spending the night with friends or grandparents
- Playing games
- Going out for ice cream
- Finger painting
- Computer time
- Staying up an hour later
Home Reward Possibilities for Elementary School Children
- Taking time off from chores
- Going to a ball game
- Camping in the backyard
- Ordering pizza
- Choosing a special breakfast
- Eating out
- Planning a day’s activities
- Sleeping in a different place in the house
- Taking a trip to the park
- Selecting something special for dinner
Home Reward Possibilities for Teenagers
- Having dating privileges
- Having friends over
- Taking dancing or music lessons
- Making a trip alone
- Taking the car to school for a day
- Having car privileges
- Getting to stay out late
- Getting to sleep in late on the weekend
- Going to a concert with friends
- Having their own cell phone
